whats in a conversation

“Small talk will be the death of us all and all that is higher thinking” an old best friend of mine used to say. A convesation takes motions to move the way each speaker wants to push themselves, its a fight or a cuddle session but the tempest is always moving in a direction. The small words or ten dollar phrases are less important than this flow. As a culture we try and sell ourselves with the right words but a more elementary and important step is the theme of our conversation. This is our own theme which we bring to ourselves; the us we bring to the dinner table is this theme not the fancy words or presentations we bend for those are all subject of this king. ANd we are always talking to ourselves in our head.